Waiting Well

We have many families that are in the process of waiting. Waiting to find the right child to adopt, waiting to bring their new child or children home, waiting for the next foster child... The list goes on.

While it may seem frustrating at times, the waiting process is an important piece of the adoption and foster care journey, and there are many things you can do to learn and prepare for the exciting next steps in your journey.

First, pray. God knows all your feelings - struggles, fears, anticipation, excitement - so share with Him your heart. He is the ultimate listener and counselor in our lives, and cares about us deeply.

Second, get connected with others that are waiting. There is great comfort in joining with others that are also in the waiting process, and knowing that you're not alone. You may even find that life-long friendships and support networks may develop during this time.

Third, gather information on the next steps of your journey. There are many helpful resources online and at your local library. Some favorite websites include: Empowered to Connect, Christian Alliance for Orphans, and Tapestry, and interesting books you may want to look into include Handbook on Thriving as an Adoptive Family, Wrapping Around Adoptive Families, The Connected Child, Adopted for Life, The One Factor, and many more.

Fourth, wrap around another family to support their needs during this time. Take the focus off your own pain and come alongside another adoptive or foster family to help encourage to them and lighten the load.

Last, move forward with hope. Even though uncertainties remain, move forward with a faith-filled hope. God knows what He is doing. Trust in His perfect timing.

The Power of Being Present

Here is an awesome video on the Power of Being Present from a mom in the trenches. Excellent for everyone - regular parents, foster and adoptive parents, and more.

What is Refuge?

Refuge is our response to homelessness, 143 million orphans worldwide, children placed in foster care because of abuse or neglect, thousands of people dying of starvation everyday, kids with no voice, and loneliness.

Refuge seeks to raise awareness and create opportunities to help children in need. Our mission is to recruit quality foster care families, provide temporary shelter, encourage child sponsorship, give adoption assistance, mentor, lead mission trips, design service opportunities, advocate for kids, and encourage kids and families.

Locally, we want to make it hard for a child in the lake Chelan Valley to be uncared for. In a community with so much beauty, nice homes, prosperity, and generous people, there is no reason any child should go without a coat, food, a home, or the love of a caring adult. We want to partner with parents, schools, churches, individuals, and organizations to help kids thrive.